This talk also uses the context of the great Jain teaching of Nischay Nay (focus on inner life) and Vyavahara Nay (focus on outer life).
Forgiving has never been easy for me. Being a Sagittarian (which is a fire sign) on one hand and the venomous Snake (my Chinese sign) on another, I would always place honour above forgiveness.
Chronic misery is a disease. It takes a toll on the host and it takes a toll on everybody around the host.